Will NoFap Help Me Get A Girlfriend?

Will NoFap Help Me Get A Girlfriend?

A lot of guys are wondering if NoFap will help them get a girlfriend.

While there is no universal truth here, this question is still much easier to answer than many other NoFap questions.

NoFap will significantly increase your chances of getting a girlfriend. Well, let’s pull out the whole truth here while we’re at it; NoFap will increase your chances both when it comes to getting a girlfriend as well as getting laid, and there are good reasons for that…let’s take a closer look. 

Will NoFap Help You Get A Girlfriend?

Sexuality is the strongest force in human nature. To reproduce and carry our genes to the next generation is the core, basic drive in all of us…

….for some it might not look that way and they might say;

“nah, you’re wrong here, I’m much more interested in making money!”.

Fair enough, many men have money and status as their primary goals, but then you should also know that those are the some of the biggest attributes that women find attractive in men…

…see where I’m getting with this?

Here’s the deal…

Even if you logically don’t think that what you are doing is because of women, a part of your brain still knows and are pushing you to increase your sexual market value.

And now some of you may say, “But I like video games, and there’s nothing sexual about that”.  Well, what are you doing in those video games? You are trying to increase your score and to level up…

…level up, that means increase your status, and a part of your brain does not know that you are just playing a game.  In the video games, guys are fulfilling needs that they are missing from real life. And those needs are underlying needs behind the core human drive, the sexuality.

Fapping to porn robs you of that drive!!!

The point I’m making is that the drive is SO STRONG that your brain automatically makes you act in ways that increase your chances of you getting the opportunity to spread your genes…

Now, the problem is, if you frequently are fapping to porn, the part of your brain that is responsible for that drive, thinks that you are already spreading your genes.

Since you are repeatedly jizzing to a bunch of hot artificial girlfriends your brain thinks that you have hit the evolutionary jackpot, so there is no need for it to give you that automatic drive than men used to have back when there was no internet porn.

What if you stop Fapping?…

As long as you keep impregnating 50-60 different pornstars  on a daily basis, your brain thinks all is good.

No need for you to get out there and get a girlfriend because your genes are already spreading all around the world with the help of willing, perfectly shaped, young and healthy females…

…but what if you stopped fapping to porn?

…Well then THE DRIVE ACTIVATES!

If you stop fapping then your brain will be under the impression that you are no longer spreading your genes and the automatic drive I talked about previously will kick in, and not only that…

….it will be STRONG!

Yes indeed, when you go on a nofap journey the part of your brain that automatically makes you do things to increase your sexual market value will become hyperactive. It will give you that natural drive that just pushes you to do things that will, sooner rather than later, get you laid…

…or get a girlfriend.

Most men who start NoFap will end up getting a girlfriend

This happens…all…the…time!

Most men who start NoFap will end up getting a girlfriend. This is true even for men who didn’t start NoFap for the sake of women…

…the natural drive is just that powerful.

The strange thing about it all is that it doesn’t even feel like you are proactively doing anything, but the drive will automatically just guide your actions, and your life, in a way that ensures you’ll get some “action”.

My personal experience with NoFap and getting girlfriends

I became aware of the whole PMO reboot and NoFap “movement” in the year 2012 and since I had so many failed attempts, with a lot of relapses,  right from the start, I started to understand that I really was addicted to it…

…I mean, otherwise it wouldn’t have been that difficult to stop, right?

For months and months I only managed to go streaks that looked something like this…

  • 55 days…
  • 48 days…
  • 83 days…
  • 27 days…
  • 68 days…

…and so on. Those are some pretty short streaks…

…heck, it took me a couple of years before I even managed to go a full 90 days clean, but even though the streaks were pretty short in my first couple of years, I ALWAYS managed to get laid even though I didn’t really set out with those goals in mind and…

…it all happened so naturally.

I even ended up with a couple of serious relationships, which later ended, but the point I’m trying to make is; this never happened back when I was fapping my brains out to online adult entertainment…

…but when we cut that crap out, our brains just naturally makes us go after the real deal.

Now, to be fair, at the time of writing this article I am doing NoFap and I am still single, but this is because I want to be single right now, and I have come such a long way on my NoFap journey that I have learned how to transmute the sexual energy into working on my goals. At this point in life, that is the way I want it. I’ll go out and get me a girlfriend later, when most of my goals are achieved.

NoFap And Getting Girls – There is More Going On!

So now you know the biggest reason why men who do NoFap end up getting a girlfriend, but is there more going on behind it all?…

…yes there is!

By starting NoFap, YOU become more attracted to normal looking girls…

When you stop desensitizing your sexual centers in the brain, by seeing more hot babes in one single week than your cavemen ancestors could see in an entire lifetime, you start to find normal looking girls significantly more attractive again…

…this is because when stopping porn, your pleasure center reverse its numbness and thus it becomes more sensitive no real life cues. Just a smile from a normal looking girl can be enough to give you butterflies in the stomach.

Now, of course this will also help you get a girlfriend. It’s simple logic really. If you suddenly find a LOT more girls exciting then of course the chances of you interacting with them increase manifold…

…and thus your chances of getting a girlfriend also increases.

The increased confidence you get on NoFap also helps…

Did you know that one of the most common benefits guys who are doing NoFap are reporting is increased confidence?

No?

Well, now you know.

And did you know that one of the most desired trait girls want in a man is…

…confidence?!?

See where I’m getting with this?

The increase in confidence is just another way NoFap may help you get a girlfriend.

There could be even more going on, but I have to warn you, here we are stepping into something a bit more mysterious…

Semen retention and women attraction…

Thousands and thousand of men, from all over the world, are reporting that whenever they get a good NoFap streak going, women suddenly start paying them a lot more attention…

…almost like there was some mysterious force, making women aware of when a man is walking around with “a loaded weapon”, so to speak.

Is that really true? – And, if so, why?

I’m not going to go into all the details about what really could be going on behind all of that in this article, but if you are interested then go read my article Does NoFap make you more attractive – NoFap and Women attraction.

Instead of speculating about why guys who are doing semen retention suddenly find women  giving them more attention than usual, let’s take a look at a few quotes from guys on NoFap…

Guys On NoFap Getting Girls…

Guy number 1

“I always wanted to do nofap for the increased confidence and decreased social anxiety, but whenever I do nofap I always end up getting a girlfriend before reaching 90 days. Well, I don’t know if “always” is the proper word to use, but this has happened to me 4 times during the last couple of years. I also have to add that back when I was a porn addict I could never get any girls. I did not really have the drive for real life girls back then anyway, but I still tried sometimes only to have them quickly run away. If you are fapping a lot to porn and wondering if starting nofap will help you get a girlfriend I can only say, hell yes it will!”


Guy number 2

I’m not sure if I have problems with porn or not, but I like to do periods of nofap to get more drive and energy in the gym. I feel it makes me stronger. Anyway I have noticed a pattern. Whenever I get about a month or so into my nofap streaks, women start paying me a lot more attention. This almost always ends with me sleeping with one of them and I go on a bit of a “jizzing spree” and then I have to start over with my semen retention. Ah well, it’s not like I’m complaining, I like the nofap lifestyle though.


Guy number 3

I use to tell my friends, if you want a girlfriend, start lifting weights, get some nice clothes and start doing nofap. It always works. Simple as that…you can thank me later!


Will NoFap Help Me Get A Girlfriend? Final Words

If you read the article this far I think the answer is pretty clear, right? For most guys, NoFap really does help them get a girlfriend…

…however, there is one more thing I should point out, just in case…

…if you are very overweight, have no goals in life, no hobbies, have a very negative outlook, are always complaining, hate grooming and have a phobia of soap then don’t think that just NOT playing with your dick will suddenly make all the women drool over you…

…I’ sorry to say that it does not really work like that.

If your really want a girlfriend, why not get some nice clothes, fix your grooming, get a gym membership and then you add NoFap on top of that…

…oh man, you’ll be getting a girl faster than you can say “Hugh Hefner”.

Thanks for reading.

-Scandinavian Bob-

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